There’s something undeniably powerful about a man in a well-fitted suit. Not the boxy, off-the-rack, funeral-director type — but the tailored, confidence-oozing kind that turns heads in boardrooms and cocktail lounges alike.
Whether you’re a fresh grad entering the corporate jungle or a seasoned executive redefining your personal brand, suiting up is more than just throwing on a blazer and tie. It’s a lifestyle of precision, grooming, and quiet luxury.
Here’s your definitive 7-step guide to becoming ‘that’ man. The one who walks in, and the room adjusts.
1. Fit First, Always
Let’s get this out of the way: no matter how expensive your suit is, if it doesn’t fit, it doesn’t work. Period.
- Shoulders should hug you, not hang like a coat rack.
- Sleeves should end just before your wrist bone, allowing half an inch of shirt cuff to peek out.
- Trousers should have a gentle break (a small crease) over your shoes, not a puddle.
Find a tailor. Befriend him. He’s your suit whisperer.
Pro tip: Don’t be afraid to buy off-the-rack — just make sure you alter it. Small changes make a massive difference.
2. Suit Up Smart: Know Your Fabrics
All suits are not created equal. Understanding fabric makes the difference between looking fresh and looking frazzled.
- Wool is the king of versatility — breathable, classic, and it works in most climates.
- Linen is perfect for summer, but wrinkles faster than a political promise.
- Cotton suits strike a great casual balance but lack wool’s natural drape.
- Tweed or flannel? Keep them for winter. They whisper Oxford professor chic.
Pro tip: Want a one-suit-fits-most situation? A navy wool two-button suit is your MVP.
3. Shirt Game: Subtle But Strategic
Your shirt is the canvas, your suit frames. White and pale blue are your safest bets — clean, crisp, and timeless. Skip loud patterns or shiny materials unless you’re gunning for prom king.
- Make sure collars don’t fly or collapse — structured collars sit better under suit lapels.
- Avoid button-down collars with formal suits.
- French cuffs? Optional. Power move? Always.
Pro tip: Iron your shirts, nobody really likes crumples.
4. Shoes: Your Suit’s Silent Partner
Shoes can make or break your entire look. You could be dressed like a Milanese CEO, but if you’re wearing square-toe slip-ons, it’s game over.
- Oxfords (black or brown): formal and foolproof.
- Derbies: slightly less formal, more versatile.
- Monk straps: a stylish flex, not for everyday.
- Loafers: fine for summer weddings or Friday cocktails, but not quarterly reports.
Pro tip: Keep them clean, polished, and preferably resoled before they squeak or crumble.
5. Accessorise Like a Gentleman, Not a Magician
Less is more. You’re not a peacock; you’re a man on a mission.
- Tie: Silk, matte finish, medium width. Skip cartoon prints or ultra skinny styles.
- Pocket square: Adds flair. Never match it exactly to your tie — coordinate, don’t clone.
- Watch: Understated elegance. Leather strap or classic metal — no fitness trackers.
- Cufflinks: Only when needed. Silver and gold are safest.
- Belt: Match it with your shoes. Always.
Pro tip: If you’re new to accessories, start with one. Let it breathe.
6. Grooming: The Suit Deserves a Clean Canvas
Imagine this: Italian wool, perfect tailoring, custom cuffs… and a five-day-old scruffy neckline. Disastrous.
- Haircut: Fresh fade, clean side part, or slick back — just make sure it’s intentional.
- Beard: Trim it or ditch it. Even stubble needs shaping.
- Nails: Cut, clean, no excuses.
- Cologne: One or two spritzes. Choose a signature scent. Avoid the duty-free sampler effect.
Pro tip: A suit without grooming is like a martini without the gin. Just… sad.
7. Confidence: The Final, Invisible Layer
You can buy the best suit money can afford and still look like a waiter if you don’t carry it right. Stand tall. Shoulders back. Chin up.
Speak less, listen more. Smile sparingly, but warmly. Let your clothes do the subtle talking.
Pro tip: The most powerful accessory isn’t a Rolex or a Windsor knot — it’s self-respect.
Remember, You Wear the Suit. Don’t Let It Wear You
In a world chasing trends, the man in a tailored suit, who smells good, speaks well, and walks like he belongs anywhere, is a rare breed. Be ‘that’ man.
Dress for the job you want? No — dress like the life you want. And own every thread of it.
Ready to elevate your suiting game? Discover styles that suit you best: Find your fit here.
